Understanding Dementia
Dementia is not a disease itself but a term for a group of symptoms caused by damage to the brain due to various diseases, such as Alzheimer’s. The symptoms vary depending on which part of the brain is affected.
Signs of Dementia
- Difficulty Completing Familiar Tasks
While needing help with new technology or adjusting to unfamiliar environments is common with aging, struggling with tasks that were once easy can indicate dementia. You may notice:- Inability to follow a familiar recipe
- Forgetting the rules of a familiar card or board game
- Getting lost on the way to a familiar location
- Difficulty completing daily tasks like laundry in the correct sequence
- Memory Changes Affecting Daily Life
Minor memory lapses, such as forgetting to buy an item or an appointment, are typical with aging. However, when memory loss impacts daily activities, it may signal dementia. Common signs include:- Forgetting names or plans
- Repeating the same questions
- Forgetting important events or dates
- Misplacing items and being unable to retrace steps
- Unexplained weight gain or loss
- Neglecting personal grooming habits
- Difficulty with Problem-Solving, Planning, or Money Management
Occasional forgetfulness about paying a bill is normal, but someone with dementia may struggle with regular bills, problem-solving, or planning. Warning signs include:- Paying the same bill multiple times
- Forgetting to pay bills on time
- Inability to use correct currency denominations
- Poor judgment or decision-making regarding money management
- Changes in Communication (Speaking or Writing)
While occasional word-finding difficulties can be part of normal aging, dementia may cause more noticeable issues with communication. Symptoms include:- Repeating the same thing over and over
- Using incorrect names for familiar objects
- Difficulty understanding what others say or following conversations
- Trouble reading or writing words
Changes in Mood, Personality, and Social Habits
While disinterest in social obligations can happen with age, someone with dementia may withdraw significantly from social activities. This is often a result of the cognitive changes listed above.
What to Do if You Notice Signs of Dementia
- Don’t Ignore the Signs
- Recognizing these changes can be emotionally challenging and even frightening. However, it’s important not to ignore them.
- Keep Track of Observations
- Document the changes you observe in a notebook or log. This information can be valuable when consulting with a physician.
- Consult a Physician
- Make an appointment with a doctor to rule out other potential causes of memory loss and discuss treatment options.
AboutMary Stoinski
Mary Stoinski is the Executive Director of Dementia Life, a Missouri-based nonprofit dedicated to supporting seniors living with dementia and their caregivers. She is a certified Dementia Practitioner of Montessori for Dementia through the Association of Montessori International and has years of experience developing memory care training and programs in the corporate senior living sector. Mary has also served as a certified trainer for the Crisis Prevention Institute and as a community educator for the Alzheimer’s Association. She is deeply passionate about honoring and supporting seniors and the caregivers who walk alongside them.




